I don't understand why people think they can take advantage of me or whatever. I know growing up, I'd take it and not complain but now that I'm older, I'm getting fucking sick of it. I just feel that I must constantly change myself or drop what I'm doing just so everyone else can be happy. I like making people happy, don't get me wrong, but some people take advantage of it whether they know it or not. Friends, strangers, anyone.
Examples? Well, this morning I woke up to a note on my door telling me not to change the temperature at night and to keep it at 65 because "princess roommate"'s room gets hot at 70. ... So what? I have to suffer through the cold just so she can be comfortable? Now, I know my circulation is irregular and I get cold easily but she likes to change the temperature to whatever depending on how SHE feels, not me. God forbid I be comfy too. I know I have a fan/heater and electric blanket but I shouldn't have to huddle up in my room next to either just because my roommate's not comfortable. Ugh.
Hm...I shouldn't complain about friends...but I gotta. A few of mine seem to think it's ok for them to bring their laundry over to wash. Half the time I'm never asked and the other half is at the last minute. It bugs me because it always takes so long for them to do it. Like, the washer or dryer will go off and they don't get up to switch over for about half an hour or so. I don't mine friends being over...but it starts to get late, it bugs me. I've also had Tom answer for me when they guys ask if they can come over or whatever. What? I can answer for myself?
I guess people just expect me to be nice and do as I'm told as if saying no to them will end the world. I'm so frustraited with it all that I want to cry.
Stop taking advantage of my niceness! Just because I let you one time doesn't mean you can do it everytime there after! Let me be comfortable for once without you walking all over me. I'm not part of the background or the dirt under your feet. Don't treat me like a person without a brain.